How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 03:17
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What is the Abu Shusha massacre in Palestine?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Has anyone ever had sex with their cousin? How did it start, and would you do it again?
Making more friends is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Is Tinder the best dating app?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
What is the scariest thing that ever happened in your life?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
What I need from you?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
What are the most extreme examples of hypocrisy?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
What have you learned from your parents' mistakes?
Ask yourself:
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
That's it for today.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.